Protection

Revisited Love Actually last night
but one line caught my heart, here it goes

[Bride goes to videoman house, someone whom she knew. He was reluctant to play her wedding video. She saw it. The bride was surprised, pleasantly. The video he took- all the shots focused on her. He, embarressed, said "it was all self-preservation."]

Perhaps why i never reveal her name here, or telling her anything.
"Is all self-preservation"

caught the movie a few times, but never caught that line
Different answers for different downs